Sexting
What is it?
Sexting is defined as the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photos electronically, primarily between mobile phones. The word is a combination of the words sex + texting.
A new term – “sexting virginity” has recently emerged in this context. A sexting virgin is someone who has not yet sent nude images of themselves using a mobile phone.
It is important to understand that these messages or photos are often originally sent innocently or without malicious intent. Imagine two high school students who have been going out for a while. The girl innocently sends a nude image of herself to her boyfriend and it’s all very exciting and feels “naughty”. A few days or weeks or months later, the couple breaks up, and he may be looking to get back at her. Or maybe they are still together but the boy just wants to show off to his friends. Either way – he simply forwards the nude image that was innocently sent to him on to his friends, and they forward it to their friends and pretty soon – the entire high school has seen it. As you can imagine, the effects of this can be devastating.
How widespread is it?
A December 2009 Pew Internet Research Center survey found that:
•4% of mobile phone-owning teens ages 12-17 say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to someone else via text messaging
•5% say they have received such images of someone they know via text message.
These are fairly conservative numbers. Other surveys indicate that sexting is much more widespread. For example, a September 2009 AP-MTV survey found that:
•3 in 10 young people have been involved in some type of naked sexting
•1 in 10 has shared a naked image of themselves
•45% of young people who report having had 7 in the past 7 days also report at least one sexting related activity
•Nearly 1 in 5 sext recipients report they have passed the images along to someone else.
More than half (55%) of those who have reported sending them to someone else say they shared them with more than one person.
Why do kids to it?
According to the Pew survey, sexting occurs most often in one of three scenarios:
1.Exchanges of images solely between two romantic partners
2.Exchanges between partners that are then shared outside the relationship
3.Exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but where often one person hopes to be.
Other reasons may include: responding to peer pressure - cyberbullying or pressure from a boyfriend or girlfriend, revenge after breakup, and simply impulsive behavior, flirting, or even blackmail.
So sexting is out there, and it’s probably a lot more widespread than you thought. As a matter of fact, your 15 year old daughter may be sending a nude photo of herself to her boyfriend at this very minute.
What is it?
Sexting is defined as the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photos electronically, primarily between mobile phones. The word is a combination of the words sex + texting.
A new term – “sexting virginity” has recently emerged in this context. A sexting virgin is someone who has not yet sent nude images of themselves using a mobile phone.
It is important to understand that these messages or photos are often originally sent innocently or without malicious intent. Imagine two high school students who have been going out for a while. The girl innocently sends a nude image of herself to her boyfriend and it’s all very exciting and feels “naughty”. A few days or weeks or months later, the couple breaks up, and he may be looking to get back at her. Or maybe they are still together but the boy just wants to show off to his friends. Either way – he simply forwards the nude image that was innocently sent to him on to his friends, and they forward it to their friends and pretty soon – the entire high school has seen it. As you can imagine, the effects of this can be devastating.
How widespread is it?
A December 2009 Pew Internet Research Center survey found that:
•4% of mobile phone-owning teens ages 12-17 say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to someone else via text messaging
•5% say they have received such images of someone they know via text message.
These are fairly conservative numbers. Other surveys indicate that sexting is much more widespread. For example, a September 2009 AP-MTV survey found that:
•3 in 10 young people have been involved in some type of naked sexting
•1 in 10 has shared a naked image of themselves
•45% of young people who report having had 7 in the past 7 days also report at least one sexting related activity
•Nearly 1 in 5 sext recipients report they have passed the images along to someone else.
More than half (55%) of those who have reported sending them to someone else say they shared them with more than one person.
Why do kids to it?
According to the Pew survey, sexting occurs most often in one of three scenarios:
1.Exchanges of images solely between two romantic partners
2.Exchanges between partners that are then shared outside the relationship
3.Exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but where often one person hopes to be.
Other reasons may include: responding to peer pressure - cyberbullying or pressure from a boyfriend or girlfriend, revenge after breakup, and simply impulsive behavior, flirting, or even blackmail.
So sexting is out there, and it’s probably a lot more widespread than you thought. As a matter of fact, your 15 year old daughter may be sending a nude photo of herself to her boyfriend at this very minute.
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The dangers of sexting...
Sexting can have serious and in some cases, disastrous consequences. Reputations, social lives, and future academics and careers can be ruined as a result of nude pictures going public. There can also be serious implications for the victim’s mental health. Victims may feel humiliation, low self esteem, and some instances of suicide have even been attributed directly to sexting.
Many teens are embarrassed and feel regret once they realize what they have done during a momentary lapse in judgment. But once the image has been posted and starts circulating there is no telling where it will end up. And there is way to “take it back” or delete it.
The story of Jessica Logan
Jessica Logan was an 18 year old teenager from Ohio. Her only crime was sending nude images of herself to her boyfriend’s mobile phone.
When they broke up, he sent the images to other girls, who started harassing her, calling her a @#!*% and a @#!*% .
Jessica, an only child, became miserable and depressed and stopped going to school.
In May 2008 Jessica appeared on Cincinnati TV to tell her story "to make sure no one else will have to go through this again".
Two months later, Jessica hanged herself in her bedroom.
Legal implications
Sexting is serious business. In some states in the US child pornography charges (second degree felonies) have been brought against teenagers who have sexted nude images. Senders of sexts may be arrested, face charges and may have to register as sex offenders! Other states have amended their laws to deal specifically with sexting.
Sexting can have serious and in some cases, disastrous consequences. Reputations, social lives, and future academics and careers can be ruined as a result of nude pictures going public. There can also be serious implications for the victim’s mental health. Victims may feel humiliation, low self esteem, and some instances of suicide have even been attributed directly to sexting.
Many teens are embarrassed and feel regret once they realize what they have done during a momentary lapse in judgment. But once the image has been posted and starts circulating there is no telling where it will end up. And there is way to “take it back” or delete it.
The story of Jessica Logan
Jessica Logan was an 18 year old teenager from Ohio. Her only crime was sending nude images of herself to her boyfriend’s mobile phone.
When they broke up, he sent the images to other girls, who started harassing her, calling her a @#!*% and a @#!*% .
Jessica, an only child, became miserable and depressed and stopped going to school.
In May 2008 Jessica appeared on Cincinnati TV to tell her story "to make sure no one else will have to go through this again".
Two months later, Jessica hanged herself in her bedroom.
Legal implications
Sexting is serious business. In some states in the US child pornography charges (second degree felonies) have been brought against teenagers who have sexted nude images. Senders of sexts may be arrested, face charges and may have to register as sex offenders! Other states have amended their laws to deal specifically with sexting.
